We kind of sort of maybe cloth diaper. Yes, she’s our EIGHTH baby, but I just got my sea legs under me, so to
speak, with this whole mothering thing. Took me more than a decade, heh.
Anyway, I’m finally in a place mentally where I feel like I can take this on, we have access to our own washer and dryer, and a big financial motivation. Plus saving the earth or whatever.
A friend sent me some diapering supplies she had made – just simple covers made out of polar fleece from a homemade pattern, and some prefold/doubler/things to stick inside them. This was awesome, because while cloth diapering is cheaper in the long run, the upfront costs can be pretty steep. I also got some Dappi wraps, nylon pants, and diapers off of eBay for under $20, which was a steal.
I looked up cloth diapering on the web, and Oh. My. Gosh. your head could explode from the info, the choices, and the cute little cloth diapered bottoms. There are diapers and all in ones and prefolds and pockets and more acronyms than NASA.
So I did what I always do, used what I could get for free and started out entirely half baked. Because if there’s one thing I’m good at, it’s not doing things the right way and then not getting the desired results.
After much research, I decided to use the dry pail method. Let’s face it, the last thing a house with an active two year old needs is a giant bucket of poopy water. Plus I’d have to haul that bucket up the stairs to wash it, and I’m lazy. Who needs biceps when you have a husband? See, I’m old fashioned, too.
Everything seemed to be going well, and I thought I might actually stick with this. It does help that I’ve already recouped my investment. I save 14 cents for every disposable I don’t use. At the rate Alianna’s going, I’ll cut $40 a month out of our budget on diapers. I do use disposables for overnight.
Then, today. For some reason, no diaper would contain her leaks today. I tried the pre-folds inside a wrap. A doubler in a fleece. Two prefolds in a wrap. A prefold and a doubler inside a standard diaper, folded with a bikini twist. All covered with nylon pants. (And can I just say that as much as I dislike the Dappi Diapers, their nylon pants are WONDERFUL).
Everything is leaking like a sieve. All of the layers are making it hard to get a good watertight seal with the nylon pants, but the sheer volume of tinkle tinkle will not be contained (yeah, I don’t want to write pee but am not ashamed to write “tinkle tinkle”. I have my editorial standards.)
I’m out of clothes, so I’ve resigned myself to just living with a slightly soggy lap. Alli’s rear end, encased in layer upon layer of absorbent cotton from various manufacturers, is cartoonishly big.
I’ll try to think about how cute a big round white diapered bum is, instead of mentally comparing her to an albino tick.
Maybe I’ll just wind a bedsheet around her lower half, and count on the 400 layers to absorb some of the overflow. Or, perhaps, I can make a pre-fold out of our van’s upholstery. Those bench seats absorb every single drop of anything the kids spill, never to release it again no matter what kind of machinery, steamery, or chemical is applied.
How on earth did they do it before plastic pants were invented?

















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This is so obvious that I apologize for even mentioning it, but are you changing her frequently enough? I found that when my daughter was a newborn, I had to change her every hour or hour-and-a-half. Cloth just can’t take as much liquid as the disposable gels can.
It may be the kind of prefold that you have as well. I found the unbleached Indian prefolds to be much more absorbent than the Chinese bleached. And I hear that the Gerber ones are useless, though I never tried them.
Random thoughts from a completely inexperienced mother of one. So, you know, there’s not much I can teach you. But this…this I have some experience with.
She gets changed very often – she poops before she eats, when she switches sides, and after eating, too – and will cry if she’s the tiniest bit dirty, LOL! We go through about 20 diapers a day… which is how I recouped my investment (such that it is) so quickly.
Thanks for the tip though!
I’m on my fourth child in cloth diapers and I like Bummis Super Whisper Wraps for the cover, and chinese prefolds for the inside. It costs more upfront to get the nicer covers (but what I use is by no means the most expensive) but you will be more likely to stick with cloth diapers if you don’t have leaks.
How often are you changing her? I always change within 30 minutes of a feed, then after another 45 minutes or so. No more than 2 hours, or you’ll get leaks, even in the best of cloth systems. I think that’s the hardest part of switching from disposables for most people.
On the other hand, I always change them right before a nap, and found that my babies are dry during naps from a pretty early age. I can put a diaper on them, they’ll take a 2 hour nap, then I nurse, plus 30 minutes for digestion, THEN I change them. My longest time of non-diaper changing in the day.
They used wool. But I hate the way wool feels on me so I can’t bring myself to use it on the baby. HOwever I went through that stage too and actually started crying. I was so determined to use cloth diapers and she was leaking on everybody. No one outside our family wanted to hold her. I felt like she had the plague.
I use pro-wraps that I got off of e-bay and bumgenius. I love the bumgenius. I use pre-fold with fleece sewn down the middle for the wraps. They work really good, but I have to be careful to change her if I know it might be awhile before I could conveniently change her again. (like at the gymnastics place.)
How are you laundering the dipes? Some laundry detergents can affect the absorbancy as will any fabric softener. Also I’ve heard of needing to ‘strip’ the diapers using something like Dawn dish soap. Possibly since you got them pre-owned they need the stripping.
I love cloth diapers. We do about 90% cloth here even though we are still using the laundromat (washer and dryer will be here Thursday!) it is still so much cheaper and for me better. I have the opposite problem as you. My little guy leaks through the disposables.
I bought them on eBay, but they were new. The other homemade diapers I used for my 2 yo for a while. I wash them in homemade laundry soap (Zote, washing soda, borax) and I’ve tried vinegar in the rinse or just a plain rinse.
I soak overnight in laundry soap + water, then finish the cycle in the AM. Then I run it again on “light wash” with nothing added, just plain water (or sometimes white vinegar). Dry in dryer.
I think she’s just… prodigious. Her brother had high blood pressure and polyuria (lotsa pee); Alli has the high blood pressure but not the polyuria dx. But all of her bodily fluids are, um, forceful. From all ends, KWIM? LOL!
I just wanted to say that baby is beautiful.I only have five living children and do not cloth diaper so I can’t help in that area.I cloth diapered my third baby for about oh a half hour.I used duck tape instead of pins.I think that says it all.
I have heard that using homemade laundry soap can lead to soap residue build-up on cloth diapers, and less absorbency, and that it’s best to use a cheap scent-free powdered detergent–just a small amount per load. But other people have said that the homemade soap works fine for them.
My little guy gets his cloth diapers soaking wet, too.
Have you tried the “g” diapers I sent you?
You should be able to find more inserts at Kroger. I used them when my baby had a bad rash-they’re flushable and biodegradable for compost piles.
Mary, I haven’t tried them yet, Ali’s still a little too small! They’re mediums.
I am using cloth diapers full-time this time… I use BumGenius. It is also for $$$ purposes, but I could claim I’m being “green” to be much cooler in certain circles.
I’m not having any trouble with leaking, not yet anyway!
I only do cloth part time with my foster daughter. I use prefolds (I think indian I got them as seconds) and motherease covers. I tried quite a few covers and these were the only ones that seems to work because I could adjust both legs and waist. Also are you using a snappi or pins or just laying in the cover, snapping might contain things better. My foster daughter floods things too. Right now she’s 2 1/2 very close to potty training but the only other thing that will hold her is pampers not the store brands.
Your baby may be pottytrained by now, but I was going to say that the detergent you use to wash the diapers can affect the absorbency of them. Here is a website with star ratings on many different detergents. I know you probably make your own, and I honestly don’t know which recipes would work best on cloth (I bet google does). I have used cloth, and my favorite detergent so far is Purex Free and Clear, you use so little, I had a bottle last me 6 months, and it only cost about $6 at Target. I only used it for the diapers, no other clothing.
Here’s the link:
http://pinstripesandpolkadots.com/detergentchoices.htm
She’s not potty trained but I think it was just a fluke – bladder capacity. Her brother has polyuria, which is so much urine there’s a medical name for it and she follows his tendencies with high BP, etc. even though she never got an official dx of polyuria.
Thanks for the tip though. I did indeed make my own although right now I’m using All Free and Clear, and I have a bottle of Purex Free on my shelf, too.