I Can’t Nurse, Now What?

Due to circumstances beyond my control, Baby J will no longer be an exclusively breastfed baby for a little while.  I need to supplement her with formula at least by half.

I think I have most of the details squared away- I have a hospital grade pump to keep my supply up, we’ve introduced an artificial nipple and she’ll eat (she still refuses any paci, though), and I’ve confirmed with my doctor and the pediatrician that some breastfeeding is okay for now so our co-sleeping will stay the same.  I bought a bottle brush and a single can of milk based formula to hold us over until I can do more research.

BUT -it’s been a long time since I bought formula or went for a ride on the wash-fill-heat-feed merry go round that is bottle feeding.  I totally nurse because I’m lazy.  I nursed Baby A until she was 14 months old and I was 3 months pregnant and couldn’t stand it anymore.  X nursed until he was 15 months old.  My (now) 5 year old was my last formula baby!

I need your help.  Mamas, if you would answer for me in the comments I’d be much obliged!  Baby J is a 7 week old piglet, a good size healthy baby with no health problems.

(I know, these are loaded questions.  Let’s just all be friends and share what works for us, mkay?  No attacking other people.  Play nice!  Breast is best, but not everyone can breastfeed.)

What’s the best formula I won’t do soy, but I sure would like to find an organic brand without sugar (I’m looking at you, Similac Organic!  Just because it’s organic sugar doesn’t mean it belongs in the first three ingredients!) or corn syrup solids.  Althouh at least organic corn syrup solids aren’t GMO.

Which bottles do you like? I have an old Playtex nurser I used a couple of times, because it’s so convenient to use the Gerber breast milk storage bags with them.  Baby J will eat from those.  I have a BPA free Gerber Orhtodontic Nuk bottle with a wide nipple right now that Baby J seems to like too.  But I’m going to have to buy more than one bottle.  I prefer reusable ones to the Playtex nurser, because I don’t want to have to keep buying inserts.

What’s the most efficient way to heat up a bottle? I’ve never used filtered water for bottles before, when I bottle fed in the past I always used warm tap water.  But now that I know how many VOCs, pharmaceuticals, hormone residue, and worse is in tap water, we’re definitely using Berkey water for our baby.Right now, I’m using my electric kettle to heat water, pour it in a pan, and heat the bottle.

A bottle warmer seems like a pricey unnecessary at this point, although if I needed it upstairs at night I’m sure I’d change my mind.

Do you know anyone who has made their own formula, using the Weston A. Price method or some other recipe?  Do they have blogs/websites?  I must admit I’m fascinated yet frightened at the prospect.  I know my husband won’t do it, and I might not be able to, so that’s not really an option for us right now.  I’m just curious!

Any tips and tricks are appreciated.

I love comments. Tell me what you think!

  • brittany April 3, 2011 7:27 pm edit

    When I worked for an adoption agency, I had an Adoptive mom who was very successful with the NT/WAPF recipes. I can’t remember which one she settled on after breastfeeding didn’t work for her, but she’s published an article that discusses the issue. Her name is Jennifer Allbritton, and you can find it through google (that’s how I did) but when I’m at the computer again (yay for phones with internet, otherwise i’d never get to read blogs!) I’ll post the link for you. She’s quite a remarkable woman, something I didn’t know at the time since I was a young and unmarried social worker, and could never understand why someone wouldn’t have a microwave in their house!

    Good luck with everything, and I’ll pray you can get baby J back on the breast full time soon. God bless!

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  • Rachel April 5, 2011 9:22 pm edit

    I made my own formula, because I had supply problems with ds1 and he was allergic to all commercial formula.

    We did whole goat’s milk with a bit of molasses and cod liver oil. The molasses is primarily to add iron and potassium, but it also sweetens. It worked beautifully, and it doesn’t spoil nearly as fast as the commercial stuff.

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  • monica April 12, 2011 7:45 pm edit

    I’m not sure if this is helpful to you or not: I’m an adoptive mom who was able to nurse my youngest (who’s now 11!) using a supplementer filled with formula. It was a plastic bag that hung around my neck with a tube that lay against my nipple. When he nursed he got milk from my breast along with formula from the supplementer. By 5 months of age, I was producing about 80% of the milk he needed. A lactation consultant was very helpful in getting me set up and figuring it all out.

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  • misty April 16, 2011 10:43 pm edit

    my son is breastfeeding and when we are out or i cant feed him i use the avent bottles and i have had no problems going back to breast after a couple of bottles.

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  • Rae April 17, 2011 8:06 pm edit

    I cannot breast feed either as much as I’d like to.
    My son doesn’t do well on the formulas I’ve tried.
    I’d like to try goat’s milk formula since I’ve heard goats milk is closest to human milk.. but from what I’ve read about it, homemade is best. I’ve got a goat dairy nearby but it seems like it’d be an big and expensive undertaking.

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