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Big Family Birthdays

Recently, Amy at Raising Arrows posted how their family celebrates birthdays.  Our way is very similar!

We have a birthday once a month, or thereabouts (well, two in May, and none in September, October, or December).

Birthdays are a line item on our monthly budget.

We generally don’t have a major party with favors, activities, goodie bags, etc.

We do invite family and friends over for a meal and cake.  The whole family, so we’ll have a house full of people but they won’t all be, for example, 6 year old girls.

I make a cake (occasionally, store bought).  I would love to take a Wilton’s class but it hasn’t worked out so far.  So I muddle through the best I can, using fruit rollups to make roses and shredded coconut and slivered almonds to cover up mistakes.  The birthday child helps bake and decorate it (if they want to, and they always want to!)

We have presents.  We let the kids take a friend on a special trip, sometimes.  Miss E chose to take her sister and her best friend skating.

The birthday child gets to pick out birthday cereal (Cocoa Puffs are popular – Mr R can eat them) and gets a day off chores.  We also usually take the day off school – it’s a family holiday!  Like the Queen’s birthday, I suppose.   They also get to choose a favorite meal for dinner.  Even if it’s not Real Food, fun cereal is a special treat and a nice change from oatmeal.

We light candles, sing, eat cake and ice cream, play, and often watch a movie.  Once a month is just about right for whatever new release kid’s movie is out on Netflix.

You can see a typical birthday on my post about Mr X turning 2.

How do you celebrate birthdays?

{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

Susan January 5, 2012 at 9:35 pm

My favorite birthday cake idea for younger children is to bake a sheet cake, and then cut out the number, using the shapes of digital clock numbers. When you are 5, you get a 5 cake! Special sprinkles or candy to decorate it. How easy is that!

Lotsalyons January 20, 2012 at 1:20 pm

I’m so glad to hear that someone else does birthdays like this. We have 8 children and can never afford “parties.” We don’t have extended family close by, so it’s just us. We have a cake, a favorite food for dinner and presents. We also have a special birthday plate that the honored child gets to eat on. Occasionally I think, “We should go skating or something”, but then this huge issue of fairness comes in. I’m always afraid that I won’t be able to follow through with other birthdays because of uncertain finances. So, if we have “outings” they’re ususally not birthday related.

Rosemary Mackin February 13, 2012 at 3:25 pm

I’m delighted to meet another mother of nine. My nine are grown and out of the house – but ever in my heart and thoughts. Like you, I also made sheet cakes for birthdays, sans icing, and “we” comprised the guest list. The birthday person received a present or two, something truly desired. Back when the children were small, incredulous people asked how I cooked for so many. My reply: “In large pots.” (The ubiquitous DUH has not always been in vogue.) When questioned about my large family I am fond of saying: “I was saving my soul and displacing my bladder. The bladder has since been repaired and I’m hopeful about the soul.

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